Fat Woman has a god son. When God Son was a year old a friend was lifting God Son above his head. Fat Woman tried it because God Son loved being picked up and waved about but God Son was a hefty little boy and big for his ages and it was extremely hard. Fat Woman's repetitive strain injury meant she had trouble holding things, never mind repeatedly lifting them above her head.
God Son is now four years old and at school and still considered big for his age. God Son is in fact one of the largest boys in his class. Fat Woman is now the possibly the only person who will lift God Son as much as he likes. God Son begs to be carried constantly when with Auntie Fat Woman "Cos she's STRONG like Grandpa used to be."
Thinking of this makes Fat Woman happy.